The love process and endurance

How often do we go through the process of love, falling in love and loving?

With that many people in the world, are we meant just for one, when all fails, we have to keep silent and alone? I have a difference of opinion about the search for that special one, the other half, the soul mate forever, the twin soul or flame.

During my short research and acting the roles which I found my path being led towards, I was always sure that “he”was the one. The consistent emotions we feel during a new meeting with a beloved, goes through pangs of challenges, and abundance of joys. In balance of life, we receive so many blessings through relationships. Marriage always the one factor that is supposed to bind people forever, seems to be a frigid and rigid law, when enforced as a till death do us part appendix. But, for all that it’s worth, for those who find themselves in confusing relationships, passing through each mate  in their life journey; would it then not seem rational to consider, that they were meant to meet for a reason and then left when it was over, also for a progressive reason?

Each love brings it’s own graces and blessings. The percentage of the love seems to elevate, perhaps with being more aware of what to avoid, knowing what to expect, learning to keep love as an open book, filling the chapters with all the experiences and one day, perhaps, one day, getting it “right” and keeping the eternal bliss of Heaven’s gift, safely in our lives.

We dare to take the risk of heartaches and pains, for love is not just the bed of roses, it initially spreads out to be. It welcomes us joyously, it unfolds , it stimulates, it revives a melancholy heart, it emerges as a bird of phoenix and creates rainbows after the rain.

Then the storms begin, to pressure the relationship, because life has imparted all it’s complexities and complications on the weary soul, responsibilities and the demands of society, impacts on every relationship, new or old, relationships which need to grow and transform over time. With new loves in mature ages, this is confounding, it implicates that two must forge their existence with all the traits of history through their individual lives. The room for making mistakes is small as no one wants to continue to make difficulties, yet there is a love connection. Taken into perspective, looking at the desired aim and end goal, I think that the love felt must encourage a worthy and happy existence as two becoming one.

With restricted caution, measures we take, baby steps we make, we can take our time, not rush, about LOVE; as if it’s going to disappear…if it does , then it was not right in the first place, and if in the time taken or needed, a good , solid relationship based on all aspects of love is built, we can hope for a happy ending, after all. So, no rush, never lose hope, always remain positive, affirm what love is in your life, keep happy and attract the like.

For everyone, there is someone.

Love, peace & light

 

~Lorraine Nur~