“Emotional dependence vs spiritual dependence” is substance abuse.
The highs and lows of emotions or spiritual gain,must be controlled and directed,not make us dependent on what we cannot control.
We derive happiness and other good emotions by inculcating positivity. Positivity is developed by positive input into the brain. Spiritual input must be accompanied by faith and belief. Emotional input is derived from the ability to form goodness from spiritual input. We cannot expect to generate happiness by being dependent on other factors. We co exist and are co dependents on one another as support and build foundations with positive forecast results.
If we are emotionally dependent on forces outside of our control, we allow ourselves to become victims of circumstances, because it is these circumstances that control how we feel and re-act. The sooner we realise that we are the artist in our life, we draw the pictures on our canvas, we operate the on off buttons, we take control of our own wishes and happiness, our God given right of CHOICE! No one can make us any sadder nor happier unless we allow them this power. Yet the ultimate power to realise all this is our own selves. We obstruct the path of our own happy destinies when we allow the obstacles to clutter our path, by allowing unimportant factors of life, to cloud our judgments. We get preoccupied with the unessentials, we become poked and prodded for others’ gain, we become the abusers of ourselves by allowing negativity to condemn us. We have the power and we hesitate to use it, because we have fear. We then become the weaker forms of ourselves. We become the controversial Jekyll & Hyde. All because we have not faced our fears, we have not uncluttered our thoughts, we have not been firm with ourselves and what we aim for. Our ultimate goal is not clear!
Our spiritual manifestations of our chosen beliefs are dependence with a positive end goal. We resonate at higher energy levels when we focus our thoughts and divide out time to be silent in devotions. We release brain clutter of the reality that is unimportant. We have a fixed determined style of how we perceive and handle matters. We build based on certainty to eradicate negativity and consciously focusing always on positivity, which we create through our spirituality. We tell ourselves positive anecdotes and repeat heavenly verses and we must believe in what we are saying. We must believe in what we are doing. We must be the reflection of happiness and all goodness in our characteristics. Jolted, prodded and hurled by external forces, we must remain firm for better reasons. Never wavering and formidable as a spirit in human form. Our aura and charisma will shine through our words, gestures and behaviour. We become a beacon that attract the like. How wonderful to be at an elevated spiritual awareness, constantly releasing good and healthy thoughts and vibes. How wonderful to smile and relax in whatever situation, with full sincerity. How joyous to be able to shine with lovingness.
To begin, we must first be truthful to ourselves. Then can we shine with truth to others. Then can we become of service to humanity. Positive self improvement makes us finer company and we will add happiness wherever we go and to whoever we meet. remember, that the eyes are the windows to the heart and the eyes cannot lie.
May the path to self fulfilment, be made simple by admitting to ourselves that we have insecurities and we have mistakes which over time has built up, hence we need to reclaim our lives by, consolidating the goodness within ourselves, shed the negative and progress to healing and recovery by inculcating good habits, good learning, good thoughts and intentions.
We can and we shall achieve a purer self and will become healthy souls for our efforts.
Peace, Love & Light
~Lorrainenur
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